What are the goals of the Collaborative Process?
Maintaining Respectful Relationships
- Maintain a good working relationship with spouse
- Continue relationships with extended family
- Provide financial security
- Reduce the negative effect of divorce on children
- Work together on developing routines for your children will help them transition into a new family dynamic
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Cooperation instead of Conflict
- The very nature of litigation pits one party against the other as opponents
- The collaborative law process begins with an agreement that protects the interests of both parties in several ways
- Each party’s attorney will be present at every meeting
- Each party will be provided with the information needed to make decisions
- Expert assistance will be available for financial, mental health or other issues where appropriate
- Parties have final authority to make decisions regarding the resolutions of issues of custody, support and the distribution of assets/liabilities
Privacy
- Information and outcomes remain private and are not exposed in any court proceeding or public record
- In the litigation process, private matters are made public
- In the litigation process, Marital Settlement Agreements are sometimes made public
- The collaborative process takes place in private meetings of the parties and their counsel, agreements remain confidential
Control
- Parties and their counsel maintain control of the collaborative process
- Parties do not cede control of their outcomes or schedules to the court system
- All decisions in the collaborative law process are made by the parties
- Support payments can be based upon the true needs of the individuals rather than a statutory formula
- The agreement regarding distribution of assets and liabilities is developed by the parties with full knowledge of the facts and applicable law

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